Parenting an autistic child can be one of the loneliest experiences in the world. The parenting advice you find does not apply. The other parents at school do not always understand. The professionals often speak past you.
The right community does not fix all of that. But it changes the texture of it.
Where to find other autism parents:
Online:
- Facebook groups for parents of autistic children — search your state or city.
- Reddit: r/autism and r/parentsofmultiples have parent-specific threads.
- The Autism Society of America has a community locator at autismsociety.org.
In person:
- Contact your local school district's special education department. They often know about parent support groups.
- Children's hospitals with autism programs frequently host parent support groups.
- Your local PACER center (pacer.org) can connect you to advocacy and community.
A note on who you look for:
Seek out parents who see their children as whole people. Communities organized around grief and cure are real — and sometimes serve people in acute crisis. But communities organized around acceptance, advocacy, and raising children who know they are valued are different in quality and feel.
WeBearish events — like the Bouncy World Autism Acceptance Week party — exist specifically to create that second kind of space. A room where autistic kids and their families show up not for therapy or intervention, but to have a party.
That is also community.
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