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Articles on autism acceptance, language, advocacy, and community — written for families, by people who care about getting it right.

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Awareness Is Not Acceptance — And the Difference Matters More Than You Think

For years, the autism community has been given awareness. Blue lights. Awareness months. Puzzle pieces. But awareness was never the finish line. Acceptance is.

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Community

What Happened at Bouncy World — And Why It Mattered

On April 7, 2024, WeBearish hosted an Autism Acceptance Week event. Here is what it looked like, and

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Resources

The Words We Use Around Autism — What Helps and What Hurts

Language is not just communication. It shapes how we think. And the words most commonly used around

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Advocacy

The ABA Debate: What Parents of Autistic Children Need to Know

Applied Behavior Analysis is the most widely covered autism therapy in the US. It is also one of the

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Acceptance

What Is Neurodiversity — And Why It Changes Everything

Neurodiversity is not a buzzword. It is a framework that shifts autism from a disorder to be fixed i

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Sensory Processing: What It Actually Feels Like From the Inside

Most people understand that autistic individuals can be sensitive to sensory input. Fewer understand

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Advocacy

How to Talk to Your Child's School About Autism Acceptance

Navigating schools as an autism parent requires strategy, documentation, and knowing your rights. He

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Resources

Stimming: What It Is, Why It Happens, and Why You Should Leave It Alone

Stimming is one of the most commonly misunderstood autistic behaviors. It is also one of the most im

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Meltdowns vs. Tantrums: They Are Not the Same Thing

Parents of autistic children know the difference. But the rest of the world often does not — and the

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Community

Finding Your Community as an Autism Parent

The isolation of raising an autistic child in a world that does not understand them is real. Finding

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Acceptance

The History of Autism: From Pathology to Pride

The understanding of autism has changed dramatically over the last 80 years. Understanding that hist

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Acceptance

What Autistic Adults Wish People Knew About Their Childhood

The most important voices in autism advocacy are often the quietest in the room: autistic adults ref

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Resources

Sensory-Friendly Spaces: What They Are and How to Create Them

A sensory-friendly space is not a special room in a building. It is a set of choices about design, n

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Acceptance

The Puzzle Piece Symbol: Why the Autism Community Moved On

The puzzle piece has been the symbol of autism for over 50 years. It is also one of the most contest

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Advocacy

How Schools Are Getting Autism Wrong — And What Would Actually Help

Despite decades of inclusion policy, most public schools are still fundamentally designed for neurot

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Resources

Why Your Autistic Child May Not Look Autistic to You

Many parents are told their child cannot be autistic because they make eye contact, or have friends,

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Acceptance

Masking: The Hidden Cost of Fitting In

Masking — suppressing autistic traits to appear neurotypical — is one of the most damaging and least

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Resources

Co-occurring Conditions: Autism and ADHD, Anxiety, and More

Autism rarely arrives alone. Understanding the conditions that frequently co-occur with autism helps

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Building a Sensory-Friendly Home Without Breaking the Bank

You do not need to renovate. Here are the practical, affordable changes that make a real difference

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Acceptance

The Double Empathy Problem: Rethinking Social Difficulties in Autism

For decades, autism was defined by its social deficits. A 2012 theory turned that understanding insi

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Advocacy

Why Autistic Girls Are Diagnosed Later — And Why That Matters

The diagnostic criteria for autism were developed primarily from studies of autistic boys. The resul

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Acceptance

Special Interests: Not a Symptom, a Superpower

The intense, specific interests that many autistic people develop are often treated as something to

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Community

How to Talk to Other Kids About a Sibling's Autism

Siblings of autistic children have their own set of experiences, questions, and needs. Here is how t

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Resources

Navigating the Healthcare System as an Autism Family

From diagnosis to ongoing care, the healthcare system is difficult to navigate for autism families.

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Resources

What Autism Looks Like at Different Ages

Autism does not look the same at two as it does at twelve or twenty-five. Understanding how autistic

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Community

Building a Support Network When You Feel Completely Alone

The isolation of autism parenting is real. Here is how to build a network that actually sustains you

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Community

The First Year After Diagnosis: What No One Tells You

Getting an autism diagnosis for your child is the beginning of a journey that is nothing like you ex

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Resources

ABA Therapy: What Parents Need to Know Before Saying Yes

Applied Behavior Analysis is the most commonly recommended autism therapy — and the most contested.

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Acceptance

What Is Masking? The Invisible Work Autistic People Do Every Day

Masking is when autistic people suppress their natural behaviors to appear neurotypical. It works —

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Community

Getting Diagnosed With Autism as an Adult: What Happens Next

Thousands of people are diagnosed with autism as adults — in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond. The re

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Resources

Sensory Overload: A Survival Guide for Parents and Autistic People

Sensory overload is not a tantrum. It is not a behavior problem. It is a neurological event. Here is

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Resources

How to Walk Into an IEP Meeting and Not Get Steamrolled

The IEP process is designed to advocate for your child — but it only works if you know how it works.

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Advocacy

Why Autism in Girls and Women Is Chronically Underdiagnosed

The diagnostic criteria for autism were developed studying white boys. Girls, women, and people assi

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Advocacy

Parents Push for ABA Paraprofessionals at Clark County Schools — What It Means

A parent-driven bill aimed at adding ABA paraprofessionals at CCSD for students on the spectrum is a

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Acceptance

The Neurodiversity Movement: Where It Came From and Where It Is Going

Neurodiversity is not a buzzword. It is a framework with a history, a community, and a body of resea

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Acceptance

Acceptance vs. Awareness: What the Difference Actually Looks Like in Practice

Everyone talks about the difference between autism awareness and autism acceptance. Here is what tha

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Acceptance

Stimming: What It Is, Why Autistic People Do It, and Why You Should Leave It Alone

Stimming — repetitive movements and sounds — is a natural self-regulatory behavior. Here is the scie

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Community

How to Find Your People: Building Community as a Parent of an Autistic Child

Parenting an autistic child can be isolating. The right community changes everything. Here is where

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Advocacy

Autism in Black Families: The Diagnosis Gap No One Talks About Enough

Black children are diagnosed with autism later, less often, and with more misdiagnoses than white ch

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Resources

Designing an Autism-Friendly Home: Small Changes, Real Difference

You do not need to renovate. You need to pay attention. Here are practical, affordable changes that

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